I havent decided yet, Raegan replied truthfully.
Raegans past with Mitchel had left her timid, wary of repeating the history and experiencing the suffering again. Plus, she had Janey and two more babies on the way, rendering her felt she couldnt afford to be reckless on the matter of being involved in a relationship.
Stefan was Ericks pal and a man of proven character. Raegan reasoned that from the perspective of a stepfather for her children, he would be a great choice.
Raegan, if youre undecided, dont let others opinions sway you. Focus on whats best for you. Neither your children nor us should influence your decision, Erick said earnestly.
Raegan was stunned for a moment. Judging from Ericks tone, it seemed he didnt want her to be with Stefan. She couldnt help asking, Why? Didnt you want to set me up with Stefan before?
Erick raised an eyebrow. I cant even judge my own feelings clearly. So, my recommendation didnt say much. Stefan is a good man. But you cant consider him just because of that. Do you understand what I mean?
Raegan was silent.
Erick stared at her, studying her expression. With the multiple years before Raegan reunited with the Fosters, he couldnt quite discern the cause of her indecisiveness. His main concern was her happiness, and he believed marriage was not about fulfilling tasks or simply finding a father for her children. Raegan deserved more than just settling down.
What I mean is Erick paused for a moment, struggling to find the right words to clearly explain his thoughts. He wondered what their mother would say if she was there.
After a while, Eric sighed and said, What you need is a partner who will be with you for the rest of your Life. Someone integral to your life and not just someone good to you and your children. Because being good to you and your children can be handled by us, your family. And we can do that indefinitely. So, when considering Stefans confession, you need to set aside this factor and only focus on one thing. And that is whether this man is really someone you want.
Raegan had never thought about this. She had a giving personality, prioritizing the people she cared about the most, especially her family. Just like when considering a father for her children, she purely looked for the standard of a good father, not thinking if he would be a good partner for her.
Raegan remained silent, so Erick continued, Raegan, although I dont know much about feelings, I dont think the dynamics between you and Stefan fall into that description. Stefan indeed treats you well. But I dont want you to have the mentality that since you cant repay his kindness, you might as well offer yourself to him wholeheartedly.
Raegan developed a pleaser personality because of her childhood experiences. If someone treated her well, she would treat them even better. But if she couldnt repay their kindness, she might sacrifice herself to satisfy them.
Erick didnt want Raegan to make decisions without understanding her feelings clearly. He added, What I mean is, I dont want you to settle down. Dont let our opinions sway you. You should know that its your life, so what you think is the most important.
Raegan looked at Erick in awe. She hadnt expected him to say such profound words. She felt like he had matured. She grasped his speech.
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Rather than finding a standard good man to marry, Erick cared more about whether she felt a soul connection with her partner.
Raegan was suddenly enlightened, realizing she had fallen into a misconception before. Indeed, she shouldnt have measured a man by the idea of finding a great father for her three children. So, she nodded repeatedly. Erick, I understand what you mean. Ill think it over carefully.
Erick desired for Raegan to prioritize her own feelings instead of always placing others over herself. He said gently, Always remember that whatever decision you make, our dad and I will
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unconditionally support you. Whether you stay single or get married, we always have your back.
Raegans eyes were slightly teary as she hugged Erick. Erick, our family will be reunited.
Yes. Definitely! Erick was firm and determined.
The next day, Stefan came to see Raegan early in the morning and invited her for a walk.
Raegan readily agreed.
Stefan had always been considerate. Before Raegan could even bring up the topic, he said first, Raegan, what I said that day was a bit premature and rushed. I didnt consider that you were still pregnant and that your emotions were a bit unstable. I know it will change in the future. So, lets talk about it again later.
Maybe because he lacked maternal care, Stefan had always been sensitive. He quickly detected even the slightest change in Raegans emotions. Like right now, he felt she was wavering a bit. But he hadnt had the opportunity to demonstrate himself to her yet. So, he wanted to delay things for as long as possible and strive for more opportunities.